The whore’s newest picture (picture removed for now). Longer and darker. Looks like I’ll continue to go short and blonde. I have to say I have been very surprised that my in-laws have not commented on or liked the picture. Perhaps letting my MIL know she was sending naked pictures to Zack had something to do with that.
In other news it appears she’s now friends with Zack’s niece. Oh, I just love seeing her gush over the new baby. So, so glad we’re so entwined. Even better I love the fact that Zack and I are sending money to pay her rent for 2 months while the whore does nothing. If you love them so much why don’t you put your money where your mouth is and actually do something, Harley?
I am never going to get away from her, am I? She’s everywhere. My MIL thinks she can sympathize with what I’m going through because of what she went through, but the OW in her case didn’t hang around her family. That’s the huge difference. I’ve got everyone that we see when we go to Kentucky thinking she’s just the greatest thing ever. People come into my home and then turn around and compliment that bitch. And here’s the thing. If they really think she’s that great and that what she did wasn’t that bad, then how can any of them say they’re rooting for me and Zack? If she’s that wonderful, if they love her and think she’s fantastic, isn’t that just basically saying, “You know, Sam, we wouldn’t really be all that upset if Zack dumped you for Harley because we just love her so much. She’s fantastic. So losing you wouldn’t be a problem because we would gain our beloved Harley.”
Yes, I know I could bury my head in the sand and pretend she doesn’t exist. But you know my policy on that. Just because I can’t see it doesn’t mean it’s not happening. I mean, if someone let a snake loose in my house even if I couldn’t see it I still wouldn’t feel comfortable until it was caught and removed. I would never feel comfortable. I’d always be wondering if I opened a cabinet or stepped down onto the floor if the snake would be there. That’s just a fact. I’d be a nervous wreck. Blocking her on FB is like having an unseen snake roaming my house. I’d rather know. I’d rather see what was going on and be prepared.
In my defense, I do not stalk her page often. I do sometimes wonder if it were someone different, someone everyone on Zack’s side of the family didn’t communicate with, if I wouldn’t stalk her page at all. I kinda think I wouldn’t. I would have no need to.
The way I see it, Zack and I as a couple are fine. I don’t think about her much in terms of what she almost did to our marriage. Yes, I am still haunted a bit by the whole: I know I don’t want to lose my kids and him telling Jezebel that Harley made him happy. It bothers me because he does seem so miserable now and didn’t back then. Oh, logically I know it all has to do with the whole fantasy vs. reality thing. She was new and exciting and promising to fulfill his every need. It was all fantasy and no reality so she was the perfect woman, doing everything that needed to be done. I get that. It still bugs me at times. Probably because he never sees the need to point that out to his sister when he talks to her and she talks to him and tells him how miserable he is.
And I can sometimes rationalize the FB thing by telling myself it’s no big deal; it doesn’t mean anything. I’ve got “friends” that I rarely communicate with on FB. I have also been known to accept a friend request from someone I don’t know all that well. So, perhaps that is what has happened here with his niece. It still bugs me, though. I’m tired of seeing her wherever I look. Funny how this becomes my cross to bear when I’m not the one who cheated!
Present Day Sam Says: Oh yeah, I think they were definitely fooling around at this point. He always said he loved my hair when it was longer and darker. I remember this picture of the whore. Someone commented on her weight loss, too. Another sign of an affair. Sign #3? Friending CF’s niece on Facebook. This was Pastor Fake’s granddaughter. Absolutely no reason for Harley to have any contact with her. In fact, she hadn’t up until this point.
I truly believe Harley is one of the most manipulative, fake phony people out there. She and Jezebel will get along wonderfully.
Oh, and this part? <<<… here’s the thing. If they really think she’s that great and that what she did wasn’t that bad, then how can any of them say they’re rooting for me and Zack? If she’s that wonderful, if they love her and think she’s fantastic, isn’t that just basically saying, “You know, Sam, we wouldn’t really be all that upset if Zack dumped you for Harley because we just love her so much. She’s fantastic. So losing you wouldn’t be a problem because we would gain our beloved Harley.”>>> That was absolutely dead on accurate.
You cannot continue to interact with the whore and honestly say you are rooting for reconciliation between the married couple. They obviously didn’t think that what she, or he, had done was that bad and they obviously were rooting for the two of them to get together.