I’m still feeling alone. He told me he may go to his cousin’s funeral. Leave Thursday, come back Friday. Alone. Again. I know I could stick a recording device in his car on his way to work but more and more I just don’t want to know. I don’t know what the hell happened. He was all frisky and loving while I was in Florida and then BOOM! Maybe I’m on hyper alert since I saw that charge in Whore Town so I’m looking at everything. I guess we’ll see. I can’t very well say he’ll never leave me, even if that is what he supposedly told Harley. I never thought he’d have an affair but he did. So, I guess I’ll just hang in there and see where this leads.
Present Day Sam Says: Any time you feel the need to stick a recording device in your spouse’s vehicle and record their conversations? Game over. They’re cheating. Your marriage is in deep trouble.
I don’t know where I heard this but someone wanted to hire a PI to follow her husband. The PI told her not to bother, that in virtually every case where he had been hired to investigate whether or not a spouse was cheating, they were. By the time it gets to the point where you want verification something in you already knows the truth.