I talked to a lawyer today. Huge relief. He crunched some numbers for me and said while he might be a few dollars off it was pretty accurate… Wonder how he’s going to send his “mom” money when that’s all he’s got. Plus, in addition to child support and spousal support I will see if I can get it ordered to have him be responsible for at least 50% of extracurriculars and any medical expenses above a simple co-pay. I think we will have to cut back some, although I’m assuming we’ll each be responsible for 50% of the marital debt… I’m just so glad to hear I don’t have to move my kids yet again and I don’t need to worry about my pets.
Oh, and get this. According to The Saint it was Tammy Faye who encouraged Harley to call Zack because he was so sad. Can you believe that shit? He also told me that Zack has been sending her money and bought her a lawn mower the last time he was there. He’s paying for her divorce. And he bought her daughter some ridiculously expensive thing she wanted.
You know, I keep wanting him to be mistaken. Maybe he had partial information and tried to put 2 and 2 together.
My plan right now is to do my best to follow him the next time he takes off. Ideally he would tell me he’s going to his home state and I would definitely trail him there. If his next visit is supposed to be to Blockhead’s I’m not sure what I’m going to do. He could go and have her meet him there. Or he could be lying completely and actually going to his home state. Either way I want to see it for myself.
I told him the last time that if he ever pulled anything like this again there would be no more chances and I would make what Husband #2’s Ex-Wife did to him seem like a walk in the park. I really would like to keep my family together if possible but if it’s not possible I’m ready to move forward. I can do this. I’m strong and I’m worth being loved.