Why Are You So Obsessed With Me?

Mean Girls, right? That’s what I want to ask Cousinfucker and Harley. Why are you so obsessed with me and what I’m doing? First, he hacks my FB page. I have no doubt it was one of them now.

“Bob” told me the other evening that CF had sent him a strongly worded message, taking him to task for the things he had said about Jezebel and Pastor Fake in our private conversations on FB messenger. So yeah, he was rooting around. Don’t know how. Don’t care.

Then he sends the mobster text messages, congratulating him on our “engagement” and telling him he’s seen naked pictures of me all over the Internet.

He goes out of his way to print images on his envelopes to me, thinking somehow I am going to be offended by being called a grinch or a robber. Hint: I’m not. It just gives me more stuff to write about and mock him for.

Now he’s signing me up for all these random, stupid things like female sex enhancement products and raw, natural made products.

And, this may just be a weird coincidence but I’ve had two friend requests from widowed men, both of whom are from out of the country but now live in the U.S.

That’s not even taking into account the text messages he’s bombarding Rock Star with, the fact that he’s been in contact with the mobster’s STBX, or that he’s trying to paint false equivalencies between the two of us.

I know it’s a small thing in the overall picture. I should let it go. He’s trying to goad me into a reaction and the best reaction I can possibly give him is no reaction at all. That must really piss him off. But there are definitely times I want to poke that bear. Hard!

Several people have said it’s turning into harassment. I continue to debate whether or not it’s worth it to say something to my lawyer and get some kind of restraining order, or if I just need to push it to the side and ignore it.

Chump Lady maintains they only have three channels- rage, pity and charm. So far I’ve seen lots of pity and some moderate amounts of rage. I’m not sure what stalking falls under. Rage, perhaps? When do I get charm? Bueller? Bueller? Anyone? Bueller?

3 thoughts on “Why Are You So Obsessed With Me?

  1. You don’t get the charm. You had your turn so now someone else has it.
    You must be so glad to be rid of him except he won’t stay gone. The texts to RS are image management. I have a friend who has been bombarded by family members who have been invisible for years. Would you guess it is about sudden money? The more things change……..

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  2. 2 windowed men? Ding ding hello, CF1, CF2.
    I would document what he’s doing and put in a folder and forget it, build an arsenal for when the time comes. He is trying so damn hard to piss you off and mess with you, I wouldn’t give him the satisfaction. It’s his worse possible outcome: to be ignored. When I was a kid my Dad told me once: “The most important/precious thing in life you can give someone is Audience” I never forgot it. Engaging someone is powerful shit, giving them a chance to fuck with you is not a Right, it’s a Priviledge. One of the things he said to me that saved me a lot of time, heartache and yes, even sanity👹. You don’t have to listen to anyone you don’t want to talk to, sweet Sam.

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