I Send My Regrets

I have been informed by the mobster that I haven’t posted a new blog post since May 16th. My mom is on my ass as well. It’s almost like we don’t live together and she doesn’t already know everything that is going on. Nonetheless, this is the longest stretch I’ve ever gone without checking in. I’ve had so much to say but every time I get ready to write my eyelids feel like cinder blocks and next thing I know I’m falling asleep sitting up. I feel very bad for neglecting my readers so I have written a few haikus to explain what I’ve been up to.

Busy, busy bee

Time flies by like an arrow

Too much to do now


Video chatting

all night long with the mobster

Leaves me little time to write


Graduation day

For Rock Star has come and gone

CF showed up- wow


Big trip to Utah

A great time was had by all

Friends, wedding, food, fun

As you can tell I’m no poet. I have been busy lately. Work has been crazy. A good crazy, but crazy nonetheless.

The funny part about this job is that it takes literally three months minimum to be trained on everything. Now the fun part is getting quicker and better. I really do like it over there, but I feel like I’m going at a hundred miles an hour some days. I’m so envious of the only person in our little pod that has been there for three years. She knows so much and is so quick and efficient. She can take breaks and everything. Meanwhile, I’m over here struggling with this new round of assignments, trying to get everything done.

I have an 8 am deadline on one report and a 2 pm deadline on the others. Two weeks ago we had two out of the four people out. Last week one of our very important programs wasn’t working which made a huge report we do each day take an even longer time AND we had someone out on vacation. I go in at 7:30 this month but the first two days I didn’t leave until 5:30 and 5.

I would rather be busy and having the days pass me by though than to be standing in a teller line waiting for customers to come in.

Work has been crazy. Weekends have been crazy. I feel like I am constantly on the go.  May 2nd we took off to Orlando for Summit, which I’ve already written about. We came back on the 7th. The following weekend was my niece’s graduation from nursing school and Mother’s Day. The weekend after that my daughter had prom on Friday and the mobster and I met up in Athens the following day. It was a quick trip, barely 24 hours, but memorable because we got to stay in the first Air BnB we ever stayed at (this was where we stayed the weekend of the Great FB Hacking), and we got to go back to the great little winery we discovered there. Sadly, they did not offer up dinner that evening because they were switching over to their summer menu.

The next weekend we were planning on meeting somewhere in the middle but the mobster’s daughter had a friend graduating from high school. This girl is over at his house constantly and jokingly refers to him as her other dad. It was important to his daughter and to her friend that he be at her graduation so he paid for me to rent a car to drive all the way down to Virginia and then flew me back home.

I didn’t get in until 2 in the morning. We went to the graduation which took place at 9 am. After some pictures and a long walk back to the car we went out to eat. We headed home and I made the mistake of taking my contacts out and putting my jammies back on and then reclining in the chair for a “nap”. I woke up around 5 the next morning, so that day was a total waste. The mobster was really nice about it, though, and said I obviously needed the sleep.

On Sunday we had brunch at a winery up in the mountains. I had French toast on challah bread and he had what I should have had- shrimp and grits, along with a couple of mimosas. After breakfast we headed over to the winery (we were at the restaurant) to take a tour and then sample some of their wines. We ended up buying two bottles of their very excellent cherry wine, drinking most of one there and taking the other one home with us.

We had planned on spending the evening watching movies and eating pizza. Instead we got the pizza but headed over to his parents’ house to join his sister who had come in from out of town, and his brother. Around 10 pm we said our goodbyes and went to his brother’s house. He had wanted to show me his house for a while now and his brother and sister-in-law were looking forward to having us alone for a bit. It was probably midnight when we went back home. All in all, Saturday might have been a big fat dud, but we crammed a lot into Sunday.

Finally, on Monday all we managed to do was head to Charlotte, eat breakfast, and drop me off at the airport. Saying goodbye really stinks, but I loved flying home as opposed to driving!

One of the biggest things that happened was Rock Star turning 18 the first weekend in June, and then graduating later that week. A teammate from Utah flew out to be with her for both of those so we drove to Chicago to pick her up. More driving.

Thursday was graduation followed by dinner afterwards. Friday morning we once again drove to Chicago to catch a flight. We got home after 11 pm on Thursday and needed to be up between 4:30 and 4:45 the next morning. Then it was off to Utah and a whirlwind weekend, which I’ll write about more later.

As you probably guessed the mobster flew up for Rock Star’s graduation, and then onto Utah with us. Yesterday I flew back to Chicago and he flew back to Charlotte. The kids and I got home around 12:30 in the morning; I didn’t get to bed until about 1 and then I reported to work this morning bright and early at 7:30.

That’s been my May and June so far. How has yours been?

P.S. Yes, CF did show up for Rock Star’s graduation and yes, I will be writing more about that as well.

10 thoughts on “I Send My Regrets

  1. I can’t believe CF showed up! Even though he is the biggest POS, I am glad, for your daughter sake, that he cared enough to come…for her anyway. I’m sure you are going to tell the story later and I’m going to feel differently.

    Every year I feel like May and the first week of June are busier than thanksgiving and Christmas. I feel like I’ve been running constantly and still not getting everything done.

    Haikus crack me up. I read one recently that really made me laugh that said…

    Haikus are easy
    But sometimes they don’t make sense

    I realized very quickly that not everyone thinks that’s funny but it made me seriously laugh 😋.

    You sound happy. That gives me more hope than you’ll ever know.

    Congrats to your daughter and to you for successfully helping her along the way and most importantly showing her how to be strong and take on this world. You must be so proud. Yay!

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    1. I find that haiku hilarious!

      Yes, as much as she said she didn’t care if he was there or not I think there was still a part of her that was glad he came. I think it would have been worse for her if he hadn’t bothered.

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  2. Yeah, I assumed you were busy with graduations and end of school year stuff.

    You should keep the haikus for a drive by post, just so we know you’re not abandoning us! 😉


  3. Good recap!
    I’m sure it meant ‘something’ to Rock Star to have/see CF at her graduation.
    You & the Mobster make the most of your time. I love that!
    Your job training sounds intense but won’t be forever & no doubt, worth it.
    Enjoy your week, Monica


  4. Geeze – busy much? No wonder you crashed on the mobsters recliner!

    It’ll be interesting to read how the CF/Mobster crossover went. Especially with regards to your states archaic view of what constitutes a relationship and how that may affect spousal support. Or is that cast in stone now?


    1. I’ll spoil part of the story and let everyone know that the mobster and CF did not interact at all.

      I’m not sure what you’re asking about being cast in stone. He can’t yank it just because I’m dating. Honestly, I think he’d have to put in a lot more work than he’s willing to do to get it eliminated. But yes, I’ll always be constrained by those laws when it comes to our divorce.


  5. I’ve been missing you! – Glad to hear you were busy with (mostly) positive stuff!! Just reading your post exhausted me so take your time getting back to us we will wait.


    1. I miss writing. I’ve had so many ideas but haven’t really had the time to write them out. I hate writing on my phone so that limits me as well. Hopefully I will be around a lot more now.


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